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Pampering Your Teens without Spoiling Them

July 27, 2011 by admin Leave a Comment

Teaching your teenagers how to manage their own money and earn things they want is important. Still, many parents enjoy pampering their kids. This can lead them to become spoiled brats. You can find a healthy balance between pampering them and teaching them important money management skills.

How To Pamper Them

Some of the most basic necessities such as school clothes, shoes, and supplies are great opportunities to pamper your teen. It’s important that kids understand where to buy nice things at a good price. Sites such as Offers.com have great deals on many items that teenagers desire. Teaching children how to manage their money and what things cost are basic money management skills they will need when they break out on their own; shopping together online for a high quality back-to-school wardrobe is the perfect opportunity to teach those lessons.

When To Teach Them To Be Independent

Many parents struggle with knowing when to teach kids how to pay for things on their own. Essentially, this is a personal choice for families. Many parents decide that at a young age, their kids will receive an allowance and must use it to buy any extras they desire. The kids pay the cashier with their own money and go through the buying process to learn that they must earn and spend money for life’s little luxuries. Others may feel that kids shouldn’t have to pay for things until they have a job and are saving money to buy a car or concert tickets.

Whatever a parent may decide, it’s important that at some point, teens learn to value their possessions and appreciate how much they cost.

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Filed Under: Financial Trends, Personal Consumer Needs Tagged With: Parent, Personal finance, Spoiled child

Love Advice for Modern Lovers

July 13, 2011 by admin Leave a Comment

Relationships are tough. Then again, living the single life presents its own set of challenges. Given the complexity of love (and lust) in the modern world, you need an expert who can help you navigate your options and make choices based on an honest ethical perspective. In other words, you need Dan Savage.

Sex advice columnist, journalist, and newspape... 

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What Your Mom Doesn’t Know

Your mom has more smarts than you could ever guess, but she probably doesn’t have much experience with meeting men online or flirting via text messages. Heaven forbid that you have to deal with issues related to homosexuality, fetishes or sex toys. Most moms would thank you gladly for taking such questions to your counselor instead of trying to talk about them over the dinner table.

Ambiguity Comes in all Lifestyles

If you have a question that falls outside of the “normal” dating realm, then you can find your answer somewhere in the annals of Dan Savage’s column Savage Love. No matter how confused you feel, you cannot shock the man. He has met someone with way kinkier kinks than you.

Dan Savage does more than just tell couples that monogamy has its own shades of gray and that the line between heterosexuality and homosexuality is more than blurred… for some people, it doesn’t exist at all. Savage also co-created the It Gets Better Project with his husband Terry. It Gets Better focuses on preventing LGBT teens from committing suicide by reminding them that life will get better for them.

If you had a chance to talk one-on-one with Savage, what question would you ask him?

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Filed Under: Personal Consumer Needs Tagged With: Dan Savage, LGBT, Savage Love

Another Hole in Defense of Marriage Act

July 4, 2011 by admin Leave a Comment

 

Al Franken, Senator from Minnesota 

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If you believe arguments set forth by religious conservatives, then you probably also agree that households led by homosexual couples don’t offer good environments for children. In fact, you might have even heard that recent research has provided ample evidence supporting this claim.

Senator Al Franken wants to set the record straight by pointing to the actual study that representatives from Focus on the Family refer to when looking for objective evidence that there claims have merit.

Focus on the Family Can’t Get its Facts Straight

In a congressional hearing about the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), Senator Franken confronted a representative from Focus on the Family about findings in a study used to support the Defense of Marriage Act. Franken points out that the study claims children living in “their own married biological or adoptive mothers and fathers were generally healthier and happier” than children living in other family types.

When Franken asked the Focus on the Family representative if he believed the study excluded homosexual couples, the rep claimed that he believed the study focused on the benefits offered by heterosexual couples.

What the Study Really Says

Unfortunately for the representative, Franken had actually read the story and knew that the definition of “nuclear family” used in the study did not exclude those led by homosexual couples. The study claimed that children benefitted from any type of nuclear family, including those led by same-sex parents.

As more people in the U.S. become convinced that homosexual couples deserve the same rights as heterosexual couples, the argument used by Focus on the Family continues to lose credence. Now the American people find that the evidence used to support DOMA doesn’t even say what they said it said.

Do you think DOMA has any relevance to protecting the rights of people in America, or does it only limit rights by discriminating against certain families?

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Filed Under: Consumer Trends, Personal Consumer Needs Tagged With: Al Franken, Defense of Marriage Act, Focus on the Family

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